2. hhbbhh13. • 5 yr. ago. It took me a while to get used to tampons but I did get used to them before I started vaginismus treatment & dilators. I use them with no pain at all now but it is for sure a good first step to start getting comfortable with the idea of inserting something and leaving it in. I would definitely start with the smallest ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Vaginismus is a type of female sexual dysfunction in which the muscles of the vagina contract involuntarily during attempts at sexual intercourse, causing discomfort and pain. In addition to interfering with a healthy sex life, vaginismus may prevent women from inserting tampons or having pelvic exams.Advice Required. I met a guy like year mutually and we ended up making out. After that, we have been talking pretty regularly but since we're in 2 different countries, we cannot meet. The next time when I met him we again made out and I know he was expecting to have sex. I made an excuse that I have my periods and I don't have sex while having ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...So my (25m) girlfriend (22f) has vaginismus. For people who don't know what it is you can google it quick, a short summary is that penetration during sex hurts a lot for her. My gf has had pain in the past when having sex with previous sex partners but it always seems to get fixed when she switches partner.This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...A successful Pap Smear. Today I completed my very first pap smear. I had attempted one almost two years ago now and the pain was so bad I had to ask the doctor to stop. That was when I decided to accept that I had a problem (and in turn, discovered I suffered from vaginismus). It took me a while (maybe a year) to take action, but I am happy to ...Using dilators. 20s something virgin. I recently got a 5 piece dilator set. Tampons and toys have always hurt so I thought I may as well try. The first two went in really easily with lube. I'm pretty surprised given my experience with toys and tampons. I have tried Dilator 1 and 2 twice in the late few days and I can't feel anything with them in.vaginismus and questioning. NSFW VENT: so i struggle with vaginismus, and boy oh boy it's very difficult. every time i masturbate (which is a lot, i grew up with unrestricted access to the internet and an obsession with smut fanfiction) it hurts and reminds me of the fact that i can't genuinely feel good. it's very possible this is due to ...i was diagnosed with vaginismus back in february but started showing symptoms at the age of 16 when i got my first vibrator. i remember i was scared shitless to insert it and it hurt so much. eventually i noticed i have severe pelvic pain and nobody seemed to care when i told them how bad it was. anyways, i bought a set of plastic dilators ...Pubic bone preventing penetration. Hi! 29F, I'm writing here to see if anybody has the same experience or any resources about it. Basically as much as I know I don't have vaginismus, but I have a bone called pubic symphysis sticking out behind my front vagina wall about an inch inside, which prevents large objects insertion.Vaginismus. Vaginismus is an involuntary tensing of the vagina. People experience it at the start of sex, while inserting a tampon or while getting a pelvic exam. Vaginismus can make intercourse painful (dyspareunia). Kegels, vaginal dilators and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can help relax muscles and stop spasms.This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Apologies in advance, this is my first time actually posting to Reddit. I am 26 years old and was finally diagnosed with vaginismus in January 2020. Besides just the obvious pain with penetration, I have debilitating anxiety surrounding penetration and even anything being near my vagina. Dilating is not a solution for everyone suffering from vaginismus. It could be a temporary help, but it won't cure the issue itself, at least not for everyone. Same with pelvic floor therapy. I had vaginismus until the age of 30, YEARS of dilating didn't do shit for me. My case was extremely severe, not even a q-tip could be inserted. This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Vaginismus is normally pain with sex, but if you’re feeling like you have to pee the whole time, it might be that h s pushing too far upward onto your bladder maybe? I’m not totally positive. Vaginismus is painful but it could be something related, which is pelvic floor dysfunction. Sounds like he might be hitting some trigger point that is ...1. Sort by: Add a Comment. kokichispoptart. • 3 mo. ago. It’ll probably feel painful somewhat but it shouldn’t be unbearable. Try doing a few deep diaphragmatic breathes and if it still hurts the same or even more, don’t force it. I’ve found breathing into my back and sorta imagining my sacrum and butt relaxing and sinking into the ...Triumphant use of first dilator! Today was my first day using dilators! My first physical therapy session last week went really well, and my second physical therapy session today also went well. My first set of Intimate Rose dilators came in today and I’ll be honest, I was scared as hell. I tried to get the first one in with lots of lubricant ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...What happens with vaginismus is that the pelvic floor muscles involuntary contract and "tighten up" when something is about to be inserted, making it painful or impossible to insert. This could be because of fear, because you're nervous, generally stressed, it could be because of sexual or medical trauma, trauma from purity culture, birth trauma etc.Bad pap smear experience. Think I’m finally coming to terms that I might have vaginismus after what I can only describe as a terrible first Pap smear experience. For full disclosure, I’m 25 and my vagina has truly been a no-go zone my whole life. I’ve never even put a finger in there, and have never successfully been able to put a tampon ...vaginismus. TW: SEXUAL ABUSE. trigger warning for sexual abuse. I posted this in CPTSD as well. I haven’t been to the gynecologist since I was raped at 19. Even before my rape I was nervous about physical exams so I never really had one. Im 24 now and my doctor said it was time so I obliged. It’s always been painful down there but i thought ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Triumphant use of first dilator! Today was my first day using dilators! My first physical therapy session last week went really well, and my second physical therapy session today also went well. My first set of Intimate Rose dilators came in today and I'll be honest, I was scared as hell. I tried to get the first one in with lots of lubricant ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...there are lots of reasons for pain with sex but it definitely sounds like vaginismus could be a part of it! the burning, sharp pain is definitely relatable. if you have the ability to have an initial session with a pelvic pt (or to get a diagnosis by a gyn) i would definitely recommend! you can also try relaxation exercises and dilation by yourself.Transgender with (possible) vaginismus. Support/Advice. I (21, nonbinary) am transmasculine so I was born with a vagina and have had periods and all that. I think I might have vaginismus, but the idea of going to the doctor is absolutely mortifying. I hate just talking about my body so even bringing it up to him feels impossible, let alone ... Once a dilator feels comfortable immobile, try twisting it slowly. Then rotate the end clockwise as you press against the vaginal opening to keep loosening the muscles. After a few minutes of that, I'll take the dilator out fully and re-insert. You'll find it goes in much easier the further into a session you are. It makes sense when you think about it - vaginismus is a hypertonic pelvic floor, and the muscle tension could reasonably put pressure in the bladder and cause that sense of urgency. i feel like i urinate a lot too. esp since i had sex for the first time (and vaginismus). started getting cystitis and urinating more. I think my first time caused my vagismus and I think I might’ve been assaulted. Support/Advice. I don’t really know where else to post about this.. so I’ll tell my story here of my first time and how it led me to my diagnosis. Yes, this is NSFW, obviously. So, my ex boyfriend and I decided we wanted to have sex, I already had finished ... A cautionary note - a lot of pelvic floor yoga can focus on strengthening the pelvic floor. This is often unhelpful to vaginismus sufferers, who have hypertonic (overly tight) pelvic floor videos. If you do go down this route look for routines that help with pelvic floor relaxation. Two poses that have been good for me are child's pose (wide ...Vaginismus is an often misunderstood condition which is why it's important to support the conversation surrounding it and do what we can to spread awareness. Below we cover everything you should know about vaginismus, including the common causes and symptoms. Plus, we are joined by Jade who has been living with vaginismus for nearly 6 years.Reddit iOS Reddit Android Reddit Premium About Reddit Advertise Blog Careers Press. Terms & Policies ... I have been unable to treat my vaginismus for the last 20 years, and I want to try Botox - it's my last resort. I'm seeking treatment in Canada - I have called so many places (private clinics, plastic surgeons) but no one has ever heard of ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Nov 4, 2023 ... Huge issue with vulvodynia, not vaginismus, though. Took over a year of excruciating pain until a pelvic PT helped me figure out that the issue ...Triumphant use of first dilator! Today was my first day using dilators! My first physical therapy session last week went really well, and my second physical therapy session today also went well. My first set of Intimate Rose dilators came in today and I’ll be honest, I was scared as hell. I tried to get the first one in with lots of lubricant ... For the first time, I inserted and used it like a 'normal' person! Together, these two things helped me achieve something doctors from multiple countries could not: I cured my vaginismus. The vagi-wave trained my vagina not to automatically tense up every time penetration was attempted. The menstrual cup made me more familiar and comfortable ... Biofeedback is something that you can do with a PT : it teaches you how to control the muscles of your vag, so that you can tighten or relax them on command. So very useful when you need to know how to relax your vag for piv (or else) !! The only thing is that you need to be able to have a sound in your vag (it was the size of a medium/small ...View community ranking In the Top 1% of largest communities on Reddit. trying to conceive with vaginismus . Hi everyone, I guess I just want some advice and maybe some words of encouragement. ... we are taking help for my vaginismus, but it is a loong loong way to any results, and we don't think waiting that long makes sense to start trying. I ...I started treatment for vaginismus in October 2015 after three difficult months trying and failing to have sex with my new boyfriend. I was able to have penetrative sex with him for the first time in December 2015 after two and a half months of practising kegels and using dilators (bought from vaginsmus.com - via Amazon) and we've had sex about ...For vaginismus sufferers, this can be devastating. View image in fullscreen. Grace, 26, couldn't use a tampon 'without searing pain'. Illustration: Guardian Design/Ellen Wishart.My ex had vulvodynia, which caused a sharp stabbing pain anytime something is inside. It's relatively rare and at the time especially not well understood; docs had been prescribing the same treatment plan as vaginismus (which is psychosomatic, whereas this is a chronic nerve condition) which meant repeated exposure to pain with no progress in treatment.This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Feeling guilty and embarrassed. I’m mostly a lesbian— I say mostly because recently I was in the trenches and met a guy that was incredibly sweet and so I thought to myself “hmm I’ve had sex with cis men before, I’m kinda down.”. We both are visiting family for the holidays so we got a hotel room. I was p wet and 3 fingers fit etc ...Vaginismus. Vaginismus is an involuntary tensing of the vagina. People experience it at the start of sex, while inserting a tampon or while getting a pelvic exam. Vaginismus can make intercourse painful (dyspareunia). Kegels, vaginal dilators and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can help relax muscles and stop spasms.The TSS comes from the first tampons that have been invented that could suck up the fluid of one whole week of menstruation. Because they sucked up in the beginning of the week quite a lot of fluid, lots of it was natural moisture from the mucosa inside the vagina. This lead to the mucosa there drying out and tearing.Vaginismus can be caused by many things, which can include anxiety, sexual abuse, injury, STD/STIs, surgery, pregnancy, or childbirth. Sometimes no particular cause can be pinpointed; some people are unaware they even have vaginismus, until they try to have sex for the first time.So much of vaginismus is fear based and involves clenching, shrinking and feeling small. But these two parts are meant to emphasize blossoming, opening up and receiving pleasure. ... i remember another reddit user said that learning to eroticize penetration helps and i agree! this practice is about leaning into desire and arousal. something ... Quick morning. This morning I woke up very horny and nothing could take my mind of this, so I asked my bf if he could help me out, so he used his fingers (externally) and I finished in 3 minutes. This made me so happy because my vaginismus makes me very anxious about anything sex related and today was really good :) Sorry if this is not allowed ... There’s more to life than what meets the eye. Nobody knows exactly what happens after you die, but there are a lot of theories. On Reddit, people shared supposed past-life memories...There is one more cause which was originally not yours. 8) a similar traumatic event or psychic state taken over from your mother during pregnancy or the first 3-4 years of life. This cad be due to a rape, a violent husband, being forces to have sex by the father, or something similar which happend to your mother.Create a ritual around exercising and try and spend at least 30 minutes a day on it. Try piggybacking this ritual with a different ritual that you already have. Before inserting the dilator tap around the vulva area with the dilator until the first tension slowly goes down.Nov 17, 2022 ... This is your body and you should take the time you need to treat it, dont let him stress you about it. And like the advice both me and my sister ...The more frequently you dilate and the longer you dilate, generally the more progress you make. I can't say definitively, bc I don't know your situation or how bad the vaginismus is, but if you're not going to be able to dilate regularly (I'd define regularly to be ~15+ minutes/5 or more times a week), investing in dilators, especially ...Background about me: I was diagnosed with vaginismus about 10 years ago. I've always been able to use tampons, but fingers usually hurt and penises always hurt to some degree. My vaginismus diagnosis predates this event but I'm currently in counseling/therapy for a sexual assault from a few years ago. 2. Sugarqueen38.Vaginismus, Pregnancy, and Childbirth. It would be so very important for you to work on curing your vaginismus prior to getting pregnant. This would allow you to get good prenatal care which is so very important. With good therapy you will learn how to have a gynecological exam and work on the related fears.Edit: Cheat sheet for vaginismus: The most helpful things for me were switching lubes, working through "Heal Pelvic Pain" by Amy Stein with my pelvic floor physiotherapist and using a tapered anal vibrator as a vaginal dilator, once I had worked up to its size using this guide. The best lube is plain, water-based and free from glycol (sometimes ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...BTL Emsella Chair. Hi all, I have been struggling with Vaginismus for as long as I can remember. At 36, I have finally decided do get help after my most recent partner left me due to intimacy issues. I don’t want to have this could hanging over my head the rest of my life. I finally went to a practice in my area that specializes in ...So there are a couple threads on vaginismus, but they are quite old and they weren't specifically what I'm looking for. I'm curious to know, how do you approach the "when" of when you're going to have sex with someone you're seeing?For best results use VuVa™ vaginal dilators 1-2 times a day. Directions Before Use: Wash dilators with a mild, fragrance-free soap and warm water. Let the dilators air dry. Start by testing the smaller size VuVa™ Vaginal Dilators to see which vagina dilator size you are comfortable inserting.I have my first pelvic exam scheduled in a week and planned parenthood. What should I expect or do to prepare?Break up / vaginismus. Hi everyone, seeking a little support for a broken heart. I have been seeing this guy since 7 months, and ended things a few days ago. When we first started seeing each other, I wasn't very serious at the beginning and he was, eventually we started dating exclusively after 3 months. From the beginning onwards, our sex ...A cautionary note - a lot of pelvic floor yoga can focus on strengthening the pelvic floor. This is often unhelpful to vaginismus sufferers, who have hypertonic (overly tight) pelvic floor videos. If you do go down this route look for routines that help with pelvic floor relaxation. Two poses that have been good for me are child's pose (wide ...I’m a 22 y/o with mild to moderate primary vaginismus. To prepare for it, I started using dilators, sublingual CBD, the Foria Arousal Oil, cbd lube and just recently tried the Foria CBD suppositories. Keep in mind that all of these things have been a substantial financial investment for me. I’d love to provide my experience to potentially ...Symptoms of vaginismus include: burning, stinging, and deep pain when penetration is attempted. inability to insert a tampon, finger, or phallic object. if penetration is possible, tearing or deep ...I think my first time caused my vagismus and I think I might’ve been assaulted. Support/Advice. I don’t really know where else to post about this.. so I’ll tell my story here of my first time and how it led me to my diagnosis. Yes, this is NSFW, obviously. So, my ex boyfriend and I decided we wanted to have sex, I already had finished ...Identifying what my fears were, and what my irrational beliefs were, is something that was very significant in helping me make progress with vaginismus as a whole. It helped direct me in what kinds of affirmations and positive messages I needed to give myself in order to make progress, push past the mental blocks I had, and ultimately to relax and ground …NHS guidelines for vaginismus treatment focus on the use of graded vaginal dilators and desensitisation, psychosexual counselling, relaxation techniques and sensate focus. Drug treatments for vaginismus are less common but include local anaesthetics and muscle relaxants. Injected botulinum toxin ( Botox) is occasionally used but remains an ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Step 2 was the in-person psychological evaluation regarding sex and then they take you to a room to look at your vagina to qualify the severity of the vaginismus. From there you set up appointments to start on dilation which is basically a kit of smaller to extra large dilators that gradually stretch the vagina muscle and make it so your mind ...See full list on wikihow.com Quick morning. This morning I woke up very horny and nothing could take my mind of this, so I asked my bf if he could help me out, so he used his fingers (externally) and I finished in 3 minutes. This made me so happy because my vaginismus makes me very anxious about anything sex related and today was really good :) Sorry if this is not allowed ...i’m so ashamed. i was diagnosed with vaginismus back in february but started showing symptoms at the age of 16 when i got my first vibrator. i remember i was scared shitless to insert it and it hurt so much. eventually i noticed i have severe pelvic pain and nobody seemed to care when i told them how bad it was.This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...My vagina instantly spasmed—things were about to get awkward. I followed Sue's directive and lay down on the bed with a thin paper sheet over my bottom half. "Put your feet on the table and ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...
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This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing …Vaginismus is a type of female sexual dysfunction in which the muscles of the vagina contract involuntarily during attempts at sexual intercourse, causing … Klutzy_Reason5769. I'm late to this but I'm trans with vaginismus! And part of it was due to dysphoria. When I saw a therapist who was clued in on LGBT people, she told me to just look at my vagina with a mirror first and to slowly introduce touching, and write about how I felt each time (not just emotions but where the emotions were in my body ... This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...The more frequently you dilate and the longer you dilate, generally the more progress you make. I can't say definitively, bc I don't know your situation or how bad the vaginismus is, but if you're not going to be able to dilate regularly (I'd define regularly to be ~15+ minutes/5 or more times a week), investing in dilators, especially ...I was never diagnosed with vaginismus, but I do think I have it. I’ve been using a menstrual cup for about 3 years now, and I have to say it definitely helps me practice relaxing my muscles so that I can insert/remove it. You’ll most definitely want to be comfortable with inserting at least two fingers to assist with removal and insertion ...Vaginismus treatment - a combined approach. Forth often sees patients with secondary vaginismus who have also been diagnosed with vulvodynia and vulval pain syndromes. "There can be more than one thing going on - potentially a wider pelvic dysfunction alongside psychosexual issues and neuropathic pain, so it is important to …Vaginismus is an involuntary spasm of the muscles surrounding the vaginal opening which occurs whenever an attempt is made to penetrate the vagina. For some …This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ... Klutzy_Reason5769. I'm late to this but I'm trans with vaginismus! And part of it was due to dysphoria. When I saw a therapist who was clued in on LGBT people, she told me to just look at my vagina with a mirror first and to slowly introduce touching, and write about how I felt each time (not just emotions but where the emotions were in my body ... r/DeadBedrooms. A support group for Redditors who are coping with a relationship that is seriously lacking in sexual intimacy. MembersOnline. •. R4V3N0109. ADMIN MOD. I have Vaginismus and I'm going to ask for divorce. Vent Only, No Advice. I apologize for the possible grammatical mistakes, English is not my native language. Posted by u/NoPaleontologist4546 - 18 votes and 15 comments This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ....